Our rational side also has two parts: one that deals in definites and one that deals with variables. The one side registers associations and likenesses such as calling all trees, trees. This is what is meant by the word science. When we study, we are simply registering observations and associations. The other part of our rational soul is calculative. It takes what we remember and theorizes. It comes up with “what ifs?”. The calculative side is the part that is rational and grasps principles. Both of these parts serve a useful purpose.
Sunday, December 29, 2013
Is That Right?
Our rational side also has two parts: one that deals in definites and one that deals with variables. The one side registers associations and likenesses such as calling all trees, trees. This is what is meant by the word science. When we study, we are simply registering observations and associations. The other part of our rational soul is calculative. It takes what we remember and theorizes. It comes up with “what ifs?”. The calculative side is the part that is rational and grasps principles. Both of these parts serve a useful purpose.
Tuesday, December 24, 2013
You Owe Me!
Tuesday, December 17, 2013
Driving
Monday, December 16, 2013
After the Bennies
Sunday, December 8, 2013
Conscience
Right and wrong do exist, but they exist in the arena of our conscience. Only we know the particulars such as our motives and intentions. When we hurt someone, we try to get the person to understand that part instead of the act alone. Those who are good at understanding each other in this way will have deeper relationships. This principle works in a community sense; as we understand, we can deal with people effectively and get along with each other. That is the meaning of grace: Making an effort to know what is really happening while keeping in sight of the goodness in others.
Monday, December 2, 2013
Spontaneity
Monday, November 25, 2013
I Know What You Did
With a person of good character there are always instances where things are done by mistake. Nobody is perfect. There are various areas this occurs. There are things that are done under compulsion such as a soldier doing his duty. In past history, soldiers held the lives of their families by their willingness to follow orders. Disgrace might mean the death of his love ones so they would do what they shouldn't. The Nuremberg trials were based on this. We do things out of ignorance to varying degrees. Someone who is crass might always tell the truth but isn't discreet about the sensitivities of the listeners. Some things that are done might be perceived as mean when the intention wasn't.
Even just people can seem good when it really isn't on purpose. Someone who does what is right because of the fear of loss under a contract doesn't have better character over someone who always keeps his word even if there isn't a contract. So there are factors of compulsion that makes some people appear just and others unjust.
Wednesday, November 20, 2013
It Wasn't Me!
There are instances where we perceive an injustice wrongly and some violations are unintentional. Mistakes and intentions have to be taken into account to help us avoid running around feeling slighted unnecessarily and also to avoid feeling guilty about things that couldn't be helped. And when it is a legal matter, it is important to penalize the guilty to the fullest extent and to give grace to those who hadn't intended to cause harm. It is important to understand that a person can be the cause of an injustice but not be at fault. We sometimes feel guilty for things that happen because what we did initiated a problem but the reality is that it couldn't be helped. But a malicious person will always claim it wasn't intentional so this causes all kinds of grey areas.
Tuesday, November 12, 2013
Unconditional
Sunday, November 10, 2013
Trust
Monday, November 4, 2013
Tip Well
Thursday, October 31, 2013
What do You Expect?
Friday, October 25, 2013
I Have Rights!
Tuesday, October 22, 2013
All for One!
Tuesday, October 15, 2013
Let's Be Fair
Saturday, October 5, 2013
Just Me..
Friday, September 27, 2013
Shame on you
Tuesday, September 24, 2013
Funny
Wednesday, September 18, 2013
Don't Exaggerate..Maybe a Little..
Sunday, September 15, 2013
Bragging
Thursday, September 12, 2013
Let's Hang Out
Friday, September 6, 2013
Man Up!
Monday, September 2, 2013
Passions
Saturday, August 31, 2013
Feeling Ambitious
Thursday, August 29, 2013
A Grand Scale
Sunday, August 25, 2013
Hand in Hand
Friday, August 23, 2013
I Think I'm Grand
Wednesday, August 21, 2013
Great!
Friday, August 16, 2013
Mine!
Ethics is a study on how to understand ourselves and others so we can get along well. This isn’t a religious study. Civility is a universal principle and having the ability to negotiate and understand are valuable traits to have. Getting along with ourselves and others is necessary to get the most out of our talents, dreams and relationships. This is the essence of a happy life. Let’s continue looking at wealth and its effect on people.
We have looked at the traits of a truly liberal person and also prodigal behavior. Terms we put on human behavior always have variations because we are all diverse. The principles that maximize our particular personalities and talents have similarities and it is these similarities that we are studying. Next we will take a look at a possessive person and will finish up with the traits of a prosperous person. Aristotle calls a possessive person ‘mean’ and a prosperous person ‘magnificence’.
There are many types of possessiveness. We use names like stingy or miserly and I am sure you can think of others. They fall short in two areas; they give too little and take too much. All types fall short in giving but they vary in how and where they fall short in taking. Some hoard money out of an honest fear of failure. They have a good motive for keeping what they have, yet fall short in giving to others. Another kind doesn’t like to pay out and assumes everyone else is that way. It causes them to be shy about receiving from others. This person thinks they are being honorable and ends up paralyzed in both giving and receiving.
There is a type of possesiveness that is based in malice. This is the extortioner who will take money any way possible; pimps, mobsters and those who take advantage of others by charging high rates of interest. Those who do it small time, we might call a gangster or a burglar. Those who are into it big time would be a despot or a politician who is prone to plunder. They all have the same thing in common and that is the sordid love of gain. They are willing to endure the disgrace of it and are willing to rip their friends off in the process. Getting ahead is all that matters to this person and honor is secondary. This form of taking from the wrong sources isn’t admirable; it is the worst kind of possessiveness.
Being possessive comes natural to humans and is what we consider the opposite of liberality. It is worse to most observers than being an over-spender. Next we will examine prosperity and the traits of a prosperous person.
Wednesday, August 14, 2013
Running Short
A truly liberal person will pay attention to whom and what he spends his money on. He values his wealth as a means to support his household and help those who really need it. A prodigal doesn’t care about who receives from him as long as he is liked. Being liked is more important to him than the fact that he is giving to crooks or enabling bad habits. Wealth becomes a liability when it is being used for appearances or some kind of superiority. This can be sought either by striving to have better things than others or by buying their favor. A liberal person doesn’t accumulate wealth as a symbol but for security for his family and to benefit other people’s lives. That is why he is careful to give to the right person at the right time and for the right reasons. If his contribution is enabling bad behavior, it will be cut off since the waste pains him and there are others that can use the help.
So a prodigal errs in being pleased for the wrong reasons, especially in his spending. A miserly person falls short in giving yet he exceeds in taking. There are different motives in giving and taking that define particular habits of character in these areas. As we study them we will gain understanding on what to avoid ourselves since no one is exempt from dealing with them.
A prodigal doesn’t usually err in taking too much and so most of the time he ends up broke. A person who exhausts his substance with giving is the defining characteristic of a prodigal. He really has no better character than a miserly person and can be cured by either age or poverty. A prodigal already has the characteristic of giving similar to a liberal person. If he learns to earn properly, and to give to the right people, he will come out of it. That is why we don’t look down on this behavior as much. This person isn’t so much wicked as he is foolish. So he is looked at as someone better than a miser because at least his wasteful behavior benefits others. The miser can’t even benefit himself.
Most prodigal people receive recklessly from any source without honor. They do so to keep up their spending habits since their own means always runs short. This is not liberality because they could care less about doing what is right and noble. The people they make rich are those who should be poor and those who are respectable are despised. Flatterers especially benefit as do those who give them pleasure. They surround themselves with self-indulgent people since nobility means nothing and the focus is on pleasures.
As we said earlier ; a prodigal can be educated and come to his senses. But a miser is very difficult to change. Even with old age he may become worse. This seems to be a more common trait in people and it shows up in many ways. It is interesting that there are so many ways a person becomes possessive and so many motives behind it; Next time we will take a look.