We can divide pleasures into two categories; pleasures of the body and pleasures of the soul. We admire honor and learning. People delight in them to differing degrees. These pleasures have to do with the mind and not the body and we usually don’t consider a person who is overboard in these areas a self-indulgent person. Someone who is devastated by the loss of a business or his friends isn't considered self-indulgent either. Caring isn't considered an excess to be avoided.
Excesses that occur in the base appetites are what temperance is concerned with. The appetites we share with animals. Animals don't have the savoring abilities to the degree humans have them. A good smell to a lion or a dog means food. It is natural to have appetites. Sometimes when these go wrong, a person may sacrifice the ability to savor and enjoy things as a human should in order to satisfy an out of control appetite. This is the point of self-indulgence. A temperate person has the ability to savor and appreciate things appropriately. For example, he can enjoy a fine tasting gourmet dinner rather than pigging out on junk food. There is less pain involved with temperance when the craving isn't satisfied immediately.
In the next post we will dig a little deeper into these areas and will be able to say we have completed book three. Only seven more to go...